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Mike Rowe Has a [Great] Point

By Jane · Comments (0)
Tuesday, October 18th, 2011

If you’ve ever seen a Ford commercial, watched Discovery’s Dirty Jobs, or heard a deep, soothing voice narrating Deadliest Catch, chances are you know who Mike Rowe is.

One of the things I appreciate about Mike [besides the OBVIOUS], is his commitment to the average working class men and women of this country. Having grown up loving a factory-working dad, I was practically standing up cheering when I listened to Mike speak to Congress . If you’ve never watched the video, please do it.  I can’t say enough about Mike’s passionate plea and personal reflections. Which brings me to today’s thoughts:

After visiting Ellis Island earlier this month, I’ve spent a good deal of time considering that what was awaiting immigrants was, overwhelmingly, a hard life filled with more challenges. They may have been free—but most were also staggeringly poor.

Could it be that we are regressing back to such a reality today?

We are seeing more and more families struggling in our current economy. The middle class is shrinking and college grads are both unemployed and shouldering thousands of dollars in student loans they cannot pay. Masses of humanity Occupy Wall Street to plead for fairness and opportunity. The job market is strained; deflated altogether.

So what does this mean for the next generation of workers? For those in this generation who cannot find work?

Have we become too accustomed to a life of luxury and ease? Do we expect a cushy office job with stock options and a travel allowance? Have we become a nation with an entitlement mentality?

Fifty years ago it was respectable to specialize in plumbing or electric. A young man who gained an apprenticeship was celebrated. Going to work with a brick mason promised a lifetime of honest pay.

Now, those careers are viewed, by and large, as “leftovers” for those who don’t go to college or who can’t “cut it” in a “real” job [read: pressed shirt and tie]. We’ve forced our students to choose between Tech center training and AP courses, and for the most part, the reputation of non-AP kids is that they’re heading nowhere.

But is that true?

Should we shrug off dirty jobs and work that requires a shovel and some muscle?

Perhaps it’s time we start changing the way we look at these “consolation prize jobs” as Mike puts it. Perhaps the only way to get America working again is to herald those jobs as real opportunities for a viable paycheck without the burden of student loans.

I believe it will continue to become more and more important for our country, and certainly for our children, not to close any doors to them. Not to pass along the bias of book education over sweat equity.

Just as we welcomed all who were willing to work to pass through Ellis Island at the turn of the century, we should welcome—and applaud—all who are willing to work in the early years of this century.

Let’s re-imagine jobs in 2011 and beyond so that we can all go after our dreams and cross our own Atlantic oceans. Let’s encourage our kids to get dirty—and get America working again.

What do you think about Mike’s speech to Congress? Agree or disagree? Why? 

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Categories : Deep Thoughts, dreams, Education, Family, Kids in School, Our Nation
Tags : Congress, Deadliest Catch, Dirty Jobs, Discovery Channel, economy, Ford, jobs, Mike Rowe, Occupy Wall Street

Lessons from Ellis Island

By Jane · Comments (2)
Tuesday, October 11th, 2011

Walking up the long sidewalk and under the breezeway to the grand old doors of Ellis Island, my footsteps joined the centuries-old line of dreamers who longed to be a part of this country.

Inside I gazed at weathered photos creased with age and wondered about their stories; I examined the satchels and trunks and the blank looks of hopeful confusion that still accompany new beginnings.

They were so brave–each one that poured into the melting pot of the millions leaving behind home and field, waving goodbye to family and friends. With screaming children and empty bellies they carried all they owned. They traveled with meager possessions and readied themselves for hard work in harsh living conditions.

For many, the dream came at a high price.

For some, not at all.

Turning a corner into a new exhibition hall, I was struck by this testimony of a young girl:

My thoughts ranged from, “Wow–she was brave to stand up to those processing her immigration!”…to…”Really?! All you ask of a girl is whether she can wash stairs??”

I hope that things are different for the girls we’re raising.

Do we work to ingrain a healthy recognition of gender differences without coddling girls? Do we expect great things from our sons and our daughters? Does your child’s teacher? Does our nation?

The truth is, according to one fascinating study, we may have so pushed back against “stair washing,” that we’ve begun to actually shortchange our boys, with potentially devastating consequences.

Could this be our future?

  • Future fathers who can’t provide for their families
  • Husbands who are not equal counterparts for their wives
  • A weakened workforce
  • A nation ill-equipped to compete globally

This, of course, raises a myriad of other issues [like will there even *be* jobs for our kids?]; that’s a topic for next time. In the meantime, I’m wondering how we find a balance for girls and boys, men and women. I’m wondering how we balance and equally value the kind of knowledge that comes from a terrific education, and the kind of knowledge that only comes from getting your hands dirty.

Or at least sticking them in a bucket of sudsy water to scrub the stairs.

 

 

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Categories : Deep Thoughts, dreams, Education, Family, Home, Travel, Uncategorized, Vacation
Tags : Ellis Island, Immigrant Families, Immigrants, New York City

Water in My Hands

By Jane · Comments (1)
Tuesday, September 6th, 2011

Last night I had a vivid dream that I was back on campus, beginning another year of college. My roommate of four years was there, beautiful as ever, unchanged in a dream world stretching across a decade and more.

I recognized the room as the one which tethered our junior and senior years. I re-lived that fluttering in the pit of my stomach–the one that accompanies such things as higher learning and leaving home and crossing your fingers for luck.

A piece of my heart, on the right.

Today I feel that fluttering for my own kids, my youngest in particular.

This morning he started kindergarten. He is a shiny penny, an untapped well, an unwrinkled garment. He can’t wait to read without mom helping. He can’t wait to use his new lunchbox. He can’t wait to stand in line at the bus stop.

As I got ready today I thought back to my dream; remembered the details. I saw old friends and recalled so many moments in the room at the top of the stairs with the windows open and the blinds chiming against the sill. I realized that college, though as close as a dream, feels like another lifetime.

I pulled at the loose frays and watched the years unravel. Saw my twenty-year-old self moving about with no thought of boys in kindergarten or dreams that wake a thirty-five year old woman.

I am the same, yet a pillar of salt: turning and gazing to the past that has slipped from my fingers like water.

Today is a day for neither rejoicing or mourning. It is a day for making my way through the puddles, jumping in that clear sea, and swimming in the water while memories bathe me.

 

 

 

 

 

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Categories : Deep Thoughts, dreams, Education, Family, Kids in School, Matters of the Heart, Motherhood/Mommy Duties, Seasons of Life, Uncategorized
Tags : back-to-school, college, dreams, Hope College, kids in school, kindergarten, memories

Working 9-to-5?

By Jane · Comments (4)
Friday, August 19th, 2011

This summer has been a delicious whirlwind of activity that has blown us around and plopped us down like Dorothy’s house in the middle of Oz: intact but a bit disoriented. While I’ll fold up and tuck away the sweetest moments for myself, there are some notable highlights I’d like to share.

First of all, {TA-DAH!!} I have a job!

That’s right: a J-O-B. One that’s predictable and includes getting paid in something other than free T-shirts. One that allows me to stay home but still requires that I iron my pants and periodically show up on time without jelly on my fingers.

Sounds perfect!

I’m so grateful for the opportunity to work alongside Jenison Public Schools as they seek to learn and effectively utilize social media as a communication tool! It’s something I wasn’t looking for…and so the fact that it found me makes it all the sweeter.

I am blessed.

Secondly, {TA-DAH…or BOO-HOO??} After nine years of lovingly feathering my nest, all of my little birds will be out plucking their own worms in school this year! We’ll still have one child home a few days a week, but for the first time since the new millenium, I won’t be 100%, 24/7 physically mothering our kids. If I ponder this long enough I do feel the sting of salt in my eyes. I do.

Yet the prospect of walking alongside our children and talking with them about big things and slowly lengthening these apron strings is starting to feel okay. I can almost swallow without gulping [ask me after the bus roars away in September, right??].

Thirdly, {DID I MENTION??} I have a job! Praying the Lord will enlarge my brain and allow it to regain its former shape and glory…you know, before all the jelly and diapers and mentions of school buses…

I’ll keep you posted…

 

 

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Categories : Chores/Duties/Jobs, Education, Finding Balance in Life, gratitude, Home, Kids in School, Motherhood/Mommy Duties, Seasons of Life, Stay-At-Home-Mom/Working Mom, writing/work
Tags : Director of Social Media, Jenison Public Schools, learning opportunities, Social Media, stay-at-home mom, Working 9-to-5, working mom

The Scrambled States of America

By Jane · Comments (3)
Thursday, April 14th, 2011

If you want to teach your gang geography, encourage them to value travel and well…possess the general knowledge that a reference to ”Washington” does not necessarily denote a conversation about our first president…then you’ll appreciate The Scrambled States of America, by Laurie Keller.

I first stumbled upon this gem in one of my many self-indulgent rendezvous to Hallmark. Drawn in by the fantastic illustrations and novel storyline, it became plain that I would actually be doing my kids a disservice by foregoing a purchase.

I mean, it’s educational, right?

In Keller’s imaginative world of changing geography, Kansas decides he’s tired of being surrounding by the same dull states, without water, and stuck in a wide expanse of flatness. So, he proposes swapping spots with another state and eventually extends the invitation to the entire nation at an evening potluck. [Wisconsin contributed cheese...can you guess what Idaho brought?]

After the states flee their old friends and neighbors in the name of newness and adventure, they quickly find that the grass is not always greener on the other side of the Mason Dixon Line. Minnesota gets sunburned when he flip-flops with Florida, and Kansas ends up bobbing in the Pacific when Hawaii signs up for a switcheroo. Should they stay? Should they go?

The Scrambled States of America is a silly page-turner that will keep you captivated until it’s all settled. Humorous comic-like captions let you in on the private thoughts of the states, and Uncle Sam serves as narrator.

If you’re wondering how you can introduce basic geography to your kids, pick up a copy! It will remind them that there’s more to “Washington” than cherry trees or wooden dentures.

What’s your latest and greatest children’s picture book? Why do you like it?

{photo credits: Thank you, Photography by Kamarah!}


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Categories : Art/Beautiful Things, Book Review, Education, Family, Kids, Literature/Books, Things I Love!, writing/work
Tags : Florida, Hawaii, Idaho, Kansas, Laurie Keller, Scrambled States of America, Uncle Sam, Washington

OWL MOON Winner!

By Jane · Comments (0)
Friday, March 25th, 2011

By Jane Yolen, Caldecott Winner

My, My! What astute readers have I!

Last week Friday I shared a fun family idea and opened a contest to those of you who could correctly identify the name of the audio book our family listened to.
All entrants guessed correctly, and the winner is: #3–

LYNDSEY DYKSTRA!!

Congrats, Lynds… and thanks for playing! Your new book will be in the mail shortly!
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Categories : Book Lists, Book Review, Contest, Discoveries, Education, Family, Family Activities, Family Friday, FREE BOOK, Giveaway!, Home, Kids, Kids in School, Literature/Books, Motherhood/Mommy Duties, Play, Things I Love!, Uncategorized, writing/work
Tags : audio books, Blog Giveaway, Book Giveaway, Caldecott Award Winner, Contest, family activities, FREE BOOK, Hardware random number generator, Jane Yolen, Owl Moon

Family Friday: I Don’t Homeschool, BUT…

By Jane · Comments (5)
Thursday, March 24th, 2011

I don’t officially homeschool our kids.

Sadly, my patience is usually gone after the PB & J hits the counter at lunchtime, and keeping the kids focused on anything longer than an hour generally requires some form of sugar or technology.  Or Benedryl.

Ok, it’s not that bad, but you get the idea.

Still, I am passionate about infusing learning opportunities into everyday life and finding fun, meaningful things to do together.

So I guess you could say that I unofficially homeschool our kids.

One of the ways we’ve brought school into the everyday is to transform our kitchen wall into a learning center. We have four clocks representing the four time zones of the contiguous United States, labeled according to locations where friends live. Having these clocks in the midst of our busy traffic space allows us to see immediately what time it is in Washington or Chicago or Montana. It helps us judge the best time for phone calls and for figuring out if so-and-so is eating dinner.

We also took a cue from the beloved classic Sleepless in Seattle, and hung a US map below the clocks. This map is special in that it is laminated and came with red pins to indicate our family travels. It’s fun to return home from trips and get out the Vis-a-Vis marker to chart our paths together. Lord willing, I’m hoping this map will look like a spider web on steroids by the time our kids leave the nest!

We refer to our map every day when we read the news, hear of others’ vacations, or learn the attributes of other states. Our kids have a running list of places they’d like to visit, with our youngest declaring his goal to go to all fifty states!

My sister and friends who homeschool all tell me that it’s really “a way of life.” I get that. And you know what? Based on what God says in Deuteronomy 6, I actually think it’s his idea to weave teaching into your daily life.

If you agree, then I officially declare you an “unofficial” homeschooler.

Start in the kitchen.  Benedryl optional.

~~~

What creative ways do you have for incorporating learning into your everyday life?

**Thank you to “Photography by Kamarah” for the lovely pictures! Look for her on Facebook.

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Categories : Decor/Organizing, Discoveries, Education, Family, Family Activities, Family Friday, Home, Kids, Kids in School, Kitchen/Culinary Woes, Marriage, Motherhood/Mommy Duties, Uncategorized
Tags : Benedryl, Deuteronomy 6, homeschool, homeschooling, learning opportunities, PB & J, Photography by Kamarah, road trips, Sleepless In Seattle, studying states, teaching time zones, time zones, US Map

Anatomy 101 with Zac Brown

By Jane · Comments (0)
Tuesday, March 22nd, 2011

It’s been interesting to watch my oldest child grow up. He’s slowly interjected his fashion sensibilities, voiced desires for new hair styles, and independently changed the radio station away from my channels to those he enjoys. Seeing a unique personality emerge ignites my imagination for his future and reminds me that part of parenting is making room for greater freedom and individuality.

Today he was home with the never-ending fever of 2011, but I had promised my mom that I’d run an errand for her, so he sluffed into the van in jammies and moccasins. When I remembered that I had to duck into the grocery store for a handful of items, I let him wait in the car to listen to the radio.

Photo Credit: http://theinspirationroom.com

Enter Zac Brown and his hit song, Toes.

J is on a country kick. He’d probably buy his own pick-up truck right now if we let him.  Let’s pray he doesn’t ever consider chewing tobacco or obtaining a Confederate flag.

So I was surprised to return to the van and find the radio on but totally turned down. He looked at me and explained everything.

“Mom, I don’t think this song is appropriate because there’s a swear word in it, so whenever it comes on I just turn it down.”

“Oh. Well good job showing that I can trust you! So what does the song say? What’s the letter that the swear word starts with?”

“A.”

“Is it a-s-s?”

“Yeah.”

“Do you know what that means?”

“Well, I had to kind of figure it out. The first time I heard the song he said, ..toes in the water, ass in the sand, not a worry in the world, cold beer in my hand… so I just thought to myself, “If his toes are in the water, then he had to be talking about his butt in the sand.”

We continued our conversation about these alternate anatomical references and how when I was growing up it would have been soap-in-the-mouth post haste for using that language. [ahhh...how times change, right?]

These days soap and shame are gone and colorful language has bubbled over into the mainstream, through the speakers of our radios and television sets. Now, if you know me well, you’ll know that I’m not beyond adding a little color to my vocabulary from time-to-time, and I certainly wouldn’t judge you for doing the same.

I’m just coming to terms with the fact that our world is a little different now. And if you’re in the car with your kid, chances are there will be opportunities for anatomy 101, courtesy of the Zac Brown Band.

I guess I should add a few diagrams to the glove box, just in case.

~~~

Have you ever been confronted with lyrics that you weren’t expecting your kids to notice? Or conversation on the news that caught you off guard? How did you handle it?

 

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Categories : Discoveries, Education, Growing Pains, Home, Illness, Kids, Kids in School, Matters of the Heart, Motherhood/Mommy Duties, Random Fun, Seasons of Life
Tags : ass, Grammy Award, growing up, pre-adolescence, Radio, song lyrics, swear words, Zac Brown, Zac Brown Band

Family Friday: Crayons and a CONTEST!

By Jane · Comments (9)
Friday, March 18th, 2011

In the spirit of loving competition, my husband started “Super Fun Dad Nights” when our kids were little. On evenings I was out he’d plan something spectacular to do together, usually involving candy, balloons, and duct tape. It won the kids over and, of course, solidified dad as the favorite.

Until the next morning when I slathered their Eggo with the best syrup Michigan produces.

Now I’ve stolen the idea: I tell the kids that we’ll have “Super Fun Mom Night” when daddy’s off working hard at a meeting or function. As I’ve told you before, he is much more fun in the traditional sense of the word. I’m fun in the “let’s learn together creatively” sense of the word. Life’s a regular party with me, huh?

So last week I grabbed one of our library books on tape and slid it into my son’s portable boom box which we relocated to the living room. I passed out a hardcover book to each kid, along with a piece of computer paper and pencil, and put a community box of crayons in the center of the floor.

Then we sat in silence as the story rolled on, imagining the pictures, envisioning the scenery, and capturing tiny details. As the narrator progressed, we began to draw a scene as we pictured it in our mind’s eye. We added details and tried to incorporate as many components as possible.

After the story concluded we took a few extra minutes to wrap up and then we shared our work. The kids described the setting, characters, and which section of the plot their story represented.

This was a peaceful activity that promoted active listening, imagination, fine motor skills, and interpersonal skills during share time. They all felt they could do better next time, but for a first try, I thought they did great. Take a look and don’t miss the CONTEST at the end!

By J, my 8 year old son

 

By M, my 5 year old son

 

By A, my 7 year old daughter

 

By a Super Fun Mom

Based on these drawings, can you guess the title and author of the book? Your correct guess will enter you into a random drawing for your own copy! Here are the rules:

  • Leave a comment with your guess BEFORE MONDAY, MARCH 21
  • YOU MUST ALSO post this contest on your blog or facebook page, or tweet a link [sorry friends without social media, these are part of the rules!]
  • and…
  • You can earn an extra entry by also correctly identifying the award this book won.

Good luck!

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    Categories : Art/Beautiful Things, Book Lists, Contest, crafts, Discoveries, Education, Family Activities, Family Friday, FREE BOOK, Giveaway!, Home, Kids, Kids in School, Motherhood/Mommy Duties, Random Fun, Uncategorized, writing/work
    Tags : Arts, audio books, books on tape, Crayon, Duct tape, Eggo, Fine motor skill, Michigan, Paper, shopping

    Michigan Maple Syrup!

    By Jane · Comments (0)
    Tuesday, March 15th, 2011

    The dormant, hibernating teacher in me is creeping to the surface once again. I may not be clawing to get back into the classroom, but I do love to turn our living room, kitchen, and the nearby woods into places where we can learn and explore together.

    So this past Saturday I planned a “Family Challenge” for us: a outing or activity with a purpose. We surprised the kids and went to a local maple syrup farm to learn how trees are tapped and syrup is made!

    I quickly typed up a handout to help direct our time, made copies, paper clipped them to hardcover books, and then passed them out to the kids [who needs clipboards?!]. The first section had them make a hypothesis and record some road names and location information. The rest of the questions dealt with the process of making syrup, what natural resources are involved, what benefits there are to buying local products, etc.

    The folks at the “Sugar Shack” were warm and gracious. Without an appointment they swung wide their doors and invited us into the history of the farm. With unhurried care they explained how sappy goodness is boiled down into something wonderful for your morning waffles, and they explained how Native Americans and Settlers each had their own ways of making syrup [clever people!]

    After we asked questions and wandered around a bit, our children got a spoonful of the real thing, ladled out of a stainless steel drum before our very eyes! [I quickly channeled Buddy the Elf and thought of him pouring syrup on his spaghetti and naming it as one of the four food groups].

    After making a few purchases we plodded down the adjacent dirt road which led to the farm’s harvesting area. Zig-zagged with blue tubes scurrying from 1,000 tree taps, the nearby forest was a maze delivering sap to a 250 gallon drum, which when full is only enough for about FIVE gallons of syrup!!  [if you are cynical about the cost of pure maple syrup, that's why!]

    Days like this one open so many doors for learning, great conversation, and praise to a God who would provide something so sweet from a tree! If you live in West Michigan or the Northeastern United States, check your local directory for a syrup farm near you; you’ll never look at your pancakes the same way again.  I promise!

    What about you? What fun winter activities have you discovered recently?

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    Categories : Discoveries, Education, Family, Family Activities, God, gratitude, Kids, Kids in School, Living Green, Motherhood/Mommy Duties, Nature/Outdoors, Random Fun, Uncategorized
    Tags : Business, Food, homeschooing, Maple, Maple syrup, michigan maple syrup association, shopping, Sugar house, Sugar Shack, Sweeteners, VandeBunte Maple
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