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Why We Should Revolt Against “Normal”

By Jane · Comments (2)
Wednesday, June 6th, 2012

I wasn’t trying to eavesdrop. Honest.

But when you’re at a baseball game sitting two feet behind a family with small children, sometimes you can’t help but catch a snippet or two of the conversation. And while the context of that conversation was totally innocent, there was one comment that got me thinking. Mom 1 said to Mom 2:

“…Don’t argue with him if he wants to be normal!”

It made me wonder: Is normal what we’re striving for? Is that enough?

Encouraging more than the status quo

We’re living in a noisy world filled with people striving to stand out, as so aptly pointed out by best-selling author and blogger Michael Hyatt in his new book, Platform. While we all aren’t destined for the limelight, I’m not sure that shooting for mediocre is really the way to go, either.

Consider it this way:

How many of us would be overjoyed with…and feel affirmed in the following situations?

  • “Honey, how do I look?” (insert dress twirling)  …  ”Ummm…Normal!“
  • “Mom, Look at my drawing!! I worked on it all day at school! Do you like it?” … “Awww, sweetie, …it’s normal.”
  • “Sir, here is your job review for this quarter. We’ve decided that you are perfectly…normal.”
  • “Welcome to our school! We’re so proud of the work we’re doing. We’re very normal.”
Are you tracking? Do you really want to simply be normal?

Why God wants more from us

  • Because Christ gave all — he gave his whole self, his entire person — to redeem us. How can we respond by giving only a fraction of ourselves in return?
  • Because Christ desires that we live an abundant life — not a “gettin’ by” kind of life. (John 10:10)
  • The New Testament repeatedly talks about God creating us to do “good works,” (Eph. 2:10) and promises that “He who started a good work will be faithful to complete it.” (Phil 1:6). Would it, then, give glory to God to simply check the “satisfactory” box?
  • We were created with unique, God-given gifts (I Cor 12). To use those gifts “adequately” or “marginally” would leave the Body weak in areas. God calls us to contribute our gifts with a cheerful heart, including and especially, the spiritual gifts he has appointed each one.

One of my favorite bloggers ends his newsletters with the words, “Stay Awesome.”

I don’t know about you, but shooting for “awesome” is a lot more inspiring than normal.

What do you think? Is “normal” enough?
Comments (2)
Categories : challenging the status quo
Tags : abundant life, Michael Hyatt, Platform; Get Noticed In A Noisy World

Setting Priorities

By Jane · Comments (9)
Friday, January 27th, 2012

Earlier this week I had the opportunity to speak to an area MOPS group on the subject of intentional, creative parenting. Spending time with young moms who are in the thick of diapers and nose wiping reminds me of how long the days felt with little ones tugging at my sleeves. It reminds me that moms in the trenches deserve a little extra encouragement and a lot more applause.

One of the activities we did at MOPS was to examine how we spend our time each day. With a plethora of distractions and lists a mile long, prioritizing the hours we’ve been given each day can be…well, just another thing to do. It’s easier to just get up and roll with it, hoping for the best.

But is that the most glorifying way to approach a new day?

God teaches us to number our days. To make them count. To strive for wisdom—not extra friends on Facebook.

 Psalm 90:12 says:

So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.

How do we number our days and apply our hearts unto wisdom if we don’t take the time to number our hours? 

It’s something I need to work on. Lately I’ve been spending a lot of time on things that are interesting to me, but aren’t all that important. Sometimes I go to bed wondering whether I spent enough time listening to my daughter or reading to my sons. I wonder if I need to take a second look at how I’m prioritizing my days.

Michael Hyatt‘s post today entitled When You Feel Overwhelmed By Your Workload was the flag I needed waved in my face. He shared the Franklin-Covey method of prioritizing:

A—urgent and important
B—important but not urgent
C—urgent but not important
D—not urgent or important

So that email account I’m dying to check: urgent? important? both?

The dishes in the sink?

Sitting with my child and coloring?

Putting a puzzle together with a little one on my lap?

I’ll be honest: I don’t know if I’ll make a numbered list every day or write an A, B, C, or D next to the things on my list.

But as I move through my day and sweep and click and push start on the washer, I’ll think twice about what really matters.

By God’s grace I’ll make my days count.


Comments (9)
Categories : Finding Balance in Life, Matters of the Heart, Motherhood/Mommy Duties, Time Management
Tags : Franklin-Covey, Michael Hyatt, MOPS, Unofficial Homeschooler

Free “Mentoring” from Mary

By Jane · Comments (1)
Saturday, October 17th, 2009

Last spring I was blessed to meet author and speaker, Mary DeMuth at a Christian Writers Conference in Wheaton, IL and have since reviewed two of her books here:  Daisy Chain and A Slow Burn. [...can't WAIT for #3 in the trilogy!!]

One of the reasons I hold her in such high esteem is because she exudes a sparkly, pure kind of joy and desire to bring others along in their writing journeys.   That said, she is to be trusted for an honest critique and would not stoop to kiss your rear just because you smell good and got your nails done before meeting her.  Mary will tell you how it is, and does so regularly to an array of hopefuls seeking advice on her publishing blog.

Aside from several blogs of her own, Mary was recently asked to guest-author a post for Michael Hyatt, the CEO of Thomas Nelson Publishing.  What she had to say on his site really impacted me as someone new to this “writing” thing.  I found the list of 10 heart-checks to be so valuable I’m providing a link so you can check it out.

Whether your goal is to be published or just write with greater truth and clarity, her message of “BOC” is something I’m going to ponder as a new week waits right around the corner.

Read “What It Takes to Become a Master Writer” here.

Thanks, Mary!

Comments (1)
Categories : Discipline Issues, Growing Pains, Literature/Books
Tags : A Slow Burn, CEO, Daisy Chain, Mary DeMuth, Master Writer, Michael Hyatt, Thomas Nelson Publishing

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